Today I have read three different stories with the same plots from three different women aging in mid-20s in my working-break time. They are young, fashion, pretty and looking charming. They all encountered three very rich men by chance who showed their generousness by crediting expensive staff which are beyond the reaches of these ladies, which could get every woman feel like day-dreaming that she has everything overnight, that she never looks at the price when shopping in Cavalli, Gucci and Christian Louboutin. Loads of women have been dreaming of getting a rich man who could pay everything for them. It seems these three pretties so lucky that they are envied by those window-shoppers who could not afford the designer shoes.

They all indulge themselves in shopping, with those supporting unlimited credit cards, thought they have found true love. They get everything so easily and do not want to come back to those days of shy pockets. They began to lost themselves, moving to massive luxury houses, isolating themselves from their work and friends,

However, good time did not last long. They all ended up with breaking up with those rich backers’ ‘good’ excuses-give each other some space, which did hardly come back.

One of them had to live with her parents instead of a five star hotel; shopping sprees are Primark not Prada. The others were left heart broken.

One minute they had the life most girls dreamt of, the next they had nothing left. Anyway they have to restart and move on forward. One of them said she miss the diamonds, but would never go back for it. She has now been sharing a small apartment with her boyfriend, a guy really loving her. Casise met Lee who does not have that much money, but who could give her much more in terms of security and commitment. Nicola run her own business and could afford to buy her own luxuries like a spots car and designer clothes.

Nothing is for free. Everything should be paid. People say we could hardly feel a sort of security in this increasing and cruel realistic world. I think being independent is the best way to protect ourselves from being hurt.

Sunday, August 05, 2007